Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Demonstration of Higher Value (DHV) - Body Language

Flip the switch - How do we demonstrate social value to a girl on first impression? This is one of the biggest concerns especially for sets in a Club or a loud social function - the place is either too loud or the people just cant be fucked with holding conversations.



Body Language - In the video, Lovedrop condenses the various body sub-communications and subtle mannerisms that demonstrates and reflects the level of your social value into a few pointers for people to pay attention to. Just to make it easier for you guys to understand and internalise this skill, i have condensed and listed the things you should avoid, and the things you should be doing:

Avoid - fidgeting/hovering(acting creepy within the proximity of girls), do not seek rapport(to face and lean towards your target or anyone), To peck or body-rock. Do realise that these are all demonstration of lower social value.

Instead, speak loudly, lean back and look composed/comfortable and project your voice with confidence and preferably slowly/loudly. Do realise that these are demonstrations of Alpha-male qualities and high social value.

Internalise the proper male body language and its half the battle won. These non-verbal communication or DHV are more important than the material - verbal gambit, magic tricks, personality tests, best friends tests etc. which in the words of Lovedrop, are just "vehicles" or "excuses" to "demonstrate these non-verbal sub-communications of a high-value guy"

However, having flipped the attraction switch of the target, we need the "vehicles" to take us to the second stage - and this will encompass a set of openers or gambits which i will cover extensively in my next entry. Till then, Peace.

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